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Transcript
Hello, and welcome to the Borealis experience. I’m
Unknown:your host Aurora. And if you want to find a place where you
Unknown:can rest and relax, unwind from a busy day, and recharge your
Unknown:batteries, this is the perfect place for you. Today I want to
Unknown:talk about attractiveness. The other day I started a poll on
Unknown:Facebook, where I asked you guys how attractive you feel. And I
Unknown:was shocked.
Unknown:Only 60% of
Unknown:the people who replied feel attractive and 40% feel
Unknown:unattractive, even ugly. And then I look at the pictures, and
Unknown:I can’t see anything wrong. And I know most of the people who
Unknown:said they feel unattractive. So I feel a deep urge now today to
Unknown:post an episode for you guys for when you feel unattractive.
Unknown:Please, if you are not connected with me on Facebook, add me My
Unknown:name is Aurora Eggert or join the Facebook group. That’s a
Unknown:good idea to warriors among us. And there you can request
Unknown:episodes from me like my friends to already and I can Yeah, fine
Unknown:tune the episodes for your needs a little better. So let’s talk
Unknown:about attractiveness. What is attractiveness? I think
Unknown:attractiveness is so subjective. And sometimes we get too caught
Unknown:up in ideals In comparison, we compare ourselves to people and
Unknown:only see the very best part of them, and don’t really see their
Unknown:flaws, right, we put others on a pedestal and make ourselves
Unknown:small. And that is very, very wrong to do because in doing so,
Unknown:your self esteem just gets smaller and smaller and you feel
Unknown:the need to hide more and more. And less and less people will
Unknown:know about you and know that you’re out there and available
Unknown:and lovable. So this episode is so dear to my heart, because for
Unknown:the longest time, I felt very unattractive and not lovable at
Unknown:all. And I will share with you some hacks. And hopefully, right
Unknown:after this episode, you can feel empowered again and good about
Unknown:yourself. So just know that this episode is more for guys and for
Unknown:girls. So let’s start. Just know that girls don’t judge guys by
Unknown:the same measures, then guys, Judge girls, so a woman wants to
Unknown:feel safe, and wants to feel attractive. A woman wants to
Unknown:feel that you’re interested in her. Most of all, of course,
Unknown:physical attractiveness is always important. But know that
Unknown:to make a woman feel safe. If you have a couple extra pounds,
Unknown:it just makes you feel even or makes you look even more like
Unknown:someone who can protect you. And if it’s too many pounds, if you
Unknown:think you’re really overweight, then there’s people out there
Unknown:too, who are attracted to that, I feel that for everything. For
Unknown:every person, there is a counterpart. And you have to be
Unknown:okay with what you have, and even proud with what you have,
Unknown:and not be scared that he will be rejected with what you got to
Unknown:offer. Because on a very deep level people choose their
Unknown:partners by scent, the scent of your body and by how you make
Unknown:them feel. And if you feel that you are a little overweight or
Unknown:too skinny, then that is one thing but the other big thing is
Unknown:how do you make that person feel when you are in her presence, or
Unknown:his presence. Of course we’re not talking just straight people
Unknown:here. So a woman will have a look at your eyes at your face
Unknown:at your hands, your four arms. And I’m pretty sure tonight if
Unknown:you look into the mirror, you can find at least one or two
Unknown:things that are super attractive and that no other human being
Unknown:has on that planet Earth. So you cannot To judge yourself only by
Unknown:your physical appearance, and just know that other people will
Unknown:judge you by totally different measures. So why not, start
Unknown:accepting yourself and be good with yourself, and drop all that
Unknown:bullshit. And waste that time that precious time and accept
Unknown:yourself right now where you’re at. When it comes to body
Unknown:weight, I learned a very, very important thing.
Unknown:Namely, that your body is a perfect mirror of how you feel
Unknown:inside. So how he looked from the outside is a perfect
Unknown:reflection of how you feel inside. And when it comes to
Unknown:weight gain when it comes to obesity. Your body is trying to
Unknown:protect you from something. And can you go back to that point in
Unknown:your life where you felt threatened where you felt
Unknown:scared, where you felt you needed an extra layer of
Unknown:protection? Can you go back to that point? Or is it too far
Unknown:back. And then another thing is, how were you conditioned when it
Unknown:comes to food. One big exam example is you had your mother,
Unknown:closest friend, really good relationship, and your dad was
Unknown:maybe more away and working hard and not really present in your
Unknown:life. And every time you had a night off time with your mom,
Unknown:you guys decided to watch a movie and open a can of pub and
Unknown:eat chips and gummy bears. And you do that every time you
Unknown:connect with your mom on a deeper level. And when you feel
Unknown:deep comfort. So now that you moved out and live by yourself,
Unknown:of course, every time you feel stressed out or you need
Unknown:comfort, your brain, your emotional body, your your
Unknown:internal compass, let’s say will drive you to the fridge and let
Unknown:you grab that pop, and that chips and the gummy bears. And
Unknown:you want to watch a movie because on a very deep level, it
Unknown:reminds you of those comforting memories with your mother back
Unknown:then. And this is just one example you might have been
Unknown:conditioned very differently when it comes to food. But it
Unknown:doesn’t matter, it’s still highly influences your
Unknown:relationship to food nowadays. So if you feel you need to lose
Unknown:weight if you feel ugly, because you have too much weight on one
Unknown:thing first, know that there’s people out there who are highly
Unknown:attracted to more heavier guys, because you guys look like he
Unknown:can protect us better. And if you are too skinny, if you feel
Unknown:uncomfortable on your skin, know that there is a girl or a guy
Unknown:out there who’s super attracted to your body and wants to
Unknown:connect with you. And he or she doesn’t judge you by the
Unknown:measures, you judge yourself. And when it comes to weight
Unknown:gain, there’s also maybe something that happened in your
Unknown:childhood, where now if your constant fear and your thyroid
Unknown:and your metabolism is running at a weight too fast of a pace
Unknown:to burn all your calories at once when you eat, right,
Unknown:there’s people who can eat and eat and eat and they just don’t
Unknown:gain weight. They usually have something that is stressing them
Unknown:out on their hardware. Yeah, not on the superficial level. But on
Unknown:a very deep level, they might have experienced something that
Unknown:stresses them out to this day. And that influences their body
Unknown:to this day. And that’s why they can gain weight. And if there’s
Unknown:nothing that ever bugged you, and if your body is just a more
Unknown:skinnier type, then again, please know that there is
Unknown:someone out there who will be deeply attracted to your
Unknown:beautiful eyes, your sensitive hands, the tone of your voice,
Unknown:your scent. There’s so much more than just the image in the
Unknown:mirror that you see every morning. And with my podcast
Unknown:here I also want to start and change your relationship to
Unknown:yourself because I feel a lot of people out there has such an
Unknown:harsh opinion about their physical appearance, and about
Unknown:how they feel about themselves or overhaul. And with this
Unknown:podcast, I want to make you aware of those thought loops
Unknown:that you engage in on a daily that don’t serve you anymore.
Unknown:That just make you feel small and shitty about yourself. And
Unknown:don’t make you want to go out there and get
Unknown:that girl. Get that date. Get that job. Get that awesome
Unknown:adventure that you deserve. All right. That was it for today.
Unknown:Thank you so much for listening to the Borealis experience. I’m
Unknown:your host Aurora and I care deeply about how you feel and
Unknown:how you are. I hope I can bring you peace into your life. I hope
Unknown:you can feel better about yourself after this episode.
Unknown:Please connect with me over Facebook and send me some more
Unknown:requests about what you need to hear.
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