Check out this book
the five levels of attachment ,
toltec wisdom for the modern world by Don Miguel Ruiz JR.
Which attachments are you fiercely clinging on to ?
Being too attached to believes will bring separation and suffering into your life if we are not aware of them.
when it comes to racism, as ugly as it sounds, I believe we have to approach it with assertive curiosity and try to dissolve this destructive fear from the inside instead of shaming from the outside. Just a thought 🙂